Using the ohmmeter, find the pair of wires that has the highest resistence as measured in ohms. This will give you your common and lowest speed tap. Using each of these two leads in turn, find the pair that gives you the the second-highest resistance. This should provide you the common and second-lowest speed tap and should also allow you to isolate which of the two leads from the first test is the common.
In our experience, we disassemble, repair and reassemble objects we can see and touch. Our goal is a repair. However, to repair today vehicles, we must expand our understanding beyond things we can touch, see and use wrenches on. We must apply the technician approach to learning, information gathering and analysis.